Modern Etiquette For Dummies, 3rd Edition

Length: 384 pages
Edition: 3
Language: English
Publisher: For Dummies
Publication Date: 2022-12-28
ISBN-10: 1119982847
ISBN-13: 9781119982845
Sales Rank: #1517933 (See Top 100 Books)

Improve your manners, navigate uncomfortable social situations, and show greater kindness to others

Our world is constantly changing, but something that always remains true? Manners matter. Etiquette is about more than just knowing which fork to use at a fancy dinner or how to write a thank-you note. Modern Etiquette For Dummies shows you how to navigate tricky interpersonal scenarios and tough workplace dilemmas with ease. With the help of Dummies, you’ll toss aside stuffy old notions of etiquette and discover how to conduct yourself in various environments. This book is full of helpful tips on tackling today’s unique challenges, including how to use the right pronouns, how to behave on social media, how to maintain professionalism in hybrid work settings (like when is it okay to turn off your camera during a Zoom meeting?), and how to put your phone down so you can focus on what matters.

Learn important social expectations in informal, formal, and workplace settings
Discover how to navigate pronouns when unsure of someone’s gender identity
Get up to date on the etiquette surrounding remote work, video calls, and more
Improve your reputation and communicate better with friends and family

This Dummies reference is great for anyone who wants improved manners. Entering the business world? Traveling overseas? Hosting a dinner party? This is the book you need.

Cover
Title Page
Copyright
Introduction
    About This Book
    Foolish Assumptions
    Icons Used in This Book
    Beyond the Book
    Where to Go from Here
Part 1: Taking the First Steps to Better Etiquette
    Chapter 1: Examining Today’s Etiquette Basics
        Taking Pride in Your Own Manners
        Making Sure to Present Yourself Positively
        Extending Courtesy to Everyone in Your Life
        Saying the Right Thing
        Entertaining (and Being Entertained) with Style
        Handling Special Situations
    Chapter 2: Becoming a Model of Good Manners
        Practicing and Benefiting from Thoughtful Behavior
        Giving and Receiving Compliments
        Rising Above Rudeness
    Chapter 3: Presenting Yourself Positively: Clothing, Grooming, and More
        Putting Together a Winning Wardrobe
        Dressing Appropriately for Any Occasion
        Looking Neater, Cleaner, and More Attractive
        Paying Attention to Your Body Language and Posture
        Coping with Things That Sneak Up on You
Part 2: Fostering Well-Mannered Relationships
    Chapter 4: Focusing on Courtesy with Your Family
        Being Considerate of Your Better Half
        Teaching Your Children Good Manners
        Acting Politely with Extended Family
        Keeping Faraway Relatives Close
    Chapter 5: Appreciating the Art of Friendships and Relationships
        Widening Your Circle of Friends
        Maintaining Your Existing Friendships
        Showing Courtesy to Members of the Opposite Sex
        Surviving the Dating Scene
    Chapter 6: Showing Civility in the Working World
        Building Positive Relationships at Work
        Handling Unfamiliar Situations
Part 3: Communicating with Courtesy: Saying Everything Right
    Chapter 7: Engaging in Polite Conversation
        Initiating a Conversation
        Finding Something to Talk About
        Listening: More than Not Talking
        Winding Down a Conversation
    Chapter 8: Sharpening Your Written Correspondence
        Stocking Up on the Hardware of Letter Writing: Paper, Pen, and Other Fun Stuff
        Selecting the Right Stationery
        Crafting a Well-Written Letter
        Writing Letters for Everyday Situations
        Addressing Envelopes Appropriately
    Chapter 9: Improving Your Phone Etiquette
        Making and Receiving Calls
        Using Voice Mail, Answering Machines, and Caller ID
        Providing Phone Guidelines for Children
        Minding Your Smartphone Manners: Text Messages, Photos, and Videos
    Chapter 10: Crafting Appropriate Emails and Social Media Posts
        Downloading Some Cyberspace Etiquette
        Staying Safe on the Internet
        Using High-Tech Gadgets Considerately
        Navigating Social Media Platforms with Your Civility Intact
    Chapter 11: Communicating in the Business World
        Meeting and Greeting
        Addressing Your Staff, Your Colleagues, and Your Boss
        Surviving Meetings and Special Events in a Mannerly Way
        Talking Business with the Help of Technology
        Corresponding in Business Situations
        Attending Virtual Meetings
Part 4: That’s Entertainment! Meals, Parties, and Gifts
    Chapter 12: Eating Meals with Elegance
        Behaving Properly After Everyone Is Seated
        Looking at Table Settings
        Mastering American and European Eating Styles
        Eating Each Course of a Meal
        Dealing with Difficult Foods
        Making Deals While Breaking Bread
        Recovering from Distressing Mealtime Moments and Common Blunders
    Chapter 13: Celebrating the Wonders of Wine
        Selecting a Pleasing Wine
        Examining the Wine
        Tasting Wine: An Art and a Pleasure
        Getting a Grip on Wine Glasses
        Savoring Champagne
        Giving a Proper Toast
        Drinking Alcoholic Beverages Sensibly
    Chapter 14: Hosting a Memorable Event
        Injecting Creativity and Organization into Your Party
        Extending a Cordial Invitation
        Arranging a Tasteful Menu
        Welcoming Your Guests and Making a Great First Impression
        Ending the Party
        Something Special: Hosting a Semiformal or Formal Occasion
    Chapter 15: Being a Gracious Guest
        Responding to an Invitation
        Arriving at an Event
        Bringing a Gift
        Mingling with Ease
        Handling Any Situation Appropriately
        Knowing When the Party’s Over
        Being a Well-Mannered Houseguest
        Following Up with a Thank-You Note
    Chapter 16: Giving and Receiving Gifts Graciously
        Looking at the Basic Responsibilities of the Giver and the Recipient
        Walking through the Gift-Giving Process
        Giving a Fitting Gift for the Occasion
        Expressing Your Thanks for a Gift
        Exchanging, Returning, or Refusing Gifts
Part 5: Making the Most of Special Situations
    Chapter 17: Marking Life’s Major Events
        Attending Weddings, Engagement Parties, Bridal Showers, and More
        Celebrating the Birth of a Baby
        Becoming an Adult
        Dealing with a Loss
    Chapter 18: On the Go: Travel Manners for Land, Sea, and Air
        Planning a Trip with Minimum Fuss
        Getting There Gracefully
        Reaching Your Destination and Enjoying Your Stay
        When in Rome: Navigating Your Way through International Cultures
    Chapter 19: Being Sensitive about Disabilities and Illnesses
        Using People-First Terminology
        Understanding the Rules of Disability Etiquette
        Dealing with Disability Issues in the Workplace
        Doing the Right Thing When Someone Has an Illness or Serious Injury
        Visiting the Sick in the Hospital and at Home
        Talking to Your Children about People with Disabilities and Illnesses
Part 6: The Part of Tens
    Chapter 20: Ten Airline Etiquette Tips
        Paying Attention to Grooming and Attire
        Being Respectful to the Flight Crew and Passengers
        Sharing the Overhead Bins
        Checking Before You Recline
        Conversing Carefully
        Using Technology Responsibly
        Managing Your Little Ones
        Watching How Much You Drink
        Cleaning Up after Yourself
        Exiting the Plane Politely
    Chapter 21: Ten Social Etiquette Tips for All of Us
        Displaying Civility and Basic Kindness
        Making a Good First Impression
        Using People’s Names
        Listening Well and Speaking Politely
        Being Punctual
        Dining Out with Ease
        Respecting People’s Personal Space
        Being Aware of Those Around You
        Giving and Receiving Compliments
        Showing Interest in Others
Index
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